Spicy Smoke, A Cat and A Farewell Hug
We received some sad news. Gonzalo died. Gonzalo and his wife Lucia were among the founding families in the community. They were among the first to meet us, among the first to host us in their home, among the first whose names and smiles were etched into our hearts. We haven't seen Gonzalo for a while. It has been hard to visit homes in the community since 2013 when the gangs made some strict rules about that. Gonzalo and Luci lost a son to gang violence. Every now and then I see Lucia selling food from a little table out in the street. Her face lights up the moment she recognizes a friend from the hermandad (sister church). Lucia has always been a good cook. One time, almost 20 years ago, my friend and I spent a week walking from home to home in the community, visiting with families, and I wrote about a particular visit with Luci... Lucia invited us in. She gestured for us to sit down on the sofa, near to the fire so we could chat w...