The Funeral
The coffin was so small. She was a tiny woman. Cut flowers rested in a vase on top of the casket and in another on top of the altar: bright white lilies and creamy calla lilies. Death brings white flowers. Rows of red, aqua and beige plastic chairs were set up in rows under the covered corridor along the back of the parking lot. This is where church happens on Sunday, where pastors and community groups meet, where fiestas happen. This is where I found a young woman sitting alone. There had been others with her during the night, but for a little while the young woman and the body of her mother were alone. Four white candle flames flickered in the breeze. We hugged. We sat. We talked a little. As synod workers arrived for their day, some glanced in our direction. Others paused to give a "good morning" or a hug. Cars parked and people began their days. The body had arrived at about 10:30 PM. Five or six people, including the mother's pastor, stayed unti